In the past few years, you found there been a flood of motivational speakers, they speak about how to be positive in life, how to think positively, and much more than that. They also give many of the leader’s examples about life and explain the leader’s hard work and passion for their success.
Human life is always in a dilemma, and this is not a bad or a shortcoming of life.
Various times you found some people are always full of confidence and behave like they are fully motivated all the time whereas some people sometimes cover all three sixty degrees with sorrow or having so much tension. Let's understand that all time motivated people comes under the category “A” & other is in the category “B”. A type of people shows that whatever they are trying to do, they will. Whereas B type people search for the right decision.
Till this line, you feel that type A people are the best ones whereas type B people are failures. But wait while making a decision. Type A people have only two things only: either they can’t are not facing understand the problems of life yet or they are not honest while they are explaining the struggles of their life to others. Human life is full of dialectics, and this is the basic nature of human life. The best possible understanding of dialectical phases in life and taking decisions according to the best possible proportion of all of them gives the right decision.
In other words, we can understand the concept as if someone always said he is the winner in the game all time, this will not possible. This is only possible in two conditions first he is telling lie or he won't have the knowledge of the game. When we play a game this is the basic nature of the game that one-day same team or player will play an extraordinary game whereas the same player will play a below-average game on another day. A person who understands the lessons of life will be able to explain the ups and downs of life in a common understanding language. They are far better than those who are still unaware of the basic nature of life. Now you are thinking that “B” category people are better ones.
Actually, Dialectics is an important part of human life, and this is found more in more intellectual people. As far as your aura will increase in thinking, your dialectics will also increase, Problems will take place only when you are not able to make proper management of them, For this, you start to ignore them, or try to ignore them. If both are not possible for you then either you will try to show you are always positive as in people category A or you will face the issue and based on your learnings and experience you will try to find out the best possible solution.
Another option you have if you are not in the condition to overcome the Dialectics, you can manage them in your own ways, Always trying to minimize them, be more acceptable more fluctuating, and trying to be more open towards new challenges. Find out the people those are having a good knowledge of life lessons and have the capacities to present them in a correct way, not only in a positive way only. Like if a military chief always focuses on how many fields he wins in a battle, and not considering the number of lives he lost. He will not able to evaluate the right report of his performance as a chief.
In the end, we can say that you should start taking life lessons in a moderate way not show only positive. This will give you a right understanding of practical and intellectual issues as well.
